This is about that best friend, that shipmate you’d love to sail through life with. That best friend that you know would love, support, listen, give, laugh, encourage, help, understand, have your back, put you in your place when needed, give you space when needed, hold you close when you think you want space but they know better, cup your face in their hands and reassure you that they are there and they are listening when you are crying your eyes over a past experience that you just shared with them, meditate with you then make love…that friend that you can talk things out with no matter the situation because the sum of the us is greater than the issue at hand. And you would be all the same to him in return because you both know it isn’t always going to be 50/50, at some point someone will be bearing more of the weight.
Neither of you are blissfully ignorant. You realize that a relationship is not always so peace, love and bubbles. You both know there are going to be moments when you want to to shove the other one off a cliff but it is a fleeting thought because at the end of the day you want them next to you even when you are at odds with each other.
How do you weather the storm with them when it is raging inside of them? Do they even want you on their ship?
Life isn’t black or white. After all, storm clouds and fog are gray, right?
To be continued…
~L
“Give what you have. To someone, it may be better than you dare to think.”
Blessed are those who live out their dreams, that’s the difference between listening to the knock on the door and going to answering it.
(I don’t know who said this but I love it.)
I have a 5 year plan. I have never had a solid plan, ever. The biggest plan I ever had was when I packed up my car and planned to drive to California over 4-5 days then attend white water guide school.
Fast forward a decade and I am ready for a change. I THRIVE ON CHANGE. I love everything about it. The excitement of something new, the trials and tribulations that absolutely suck at the time but you realize that it is a HUGE growth moment inside your soul and it is shaking you to the core. The unknown is what I love most about life. Who am I going to meet? Where am I going to go? What am I going to do a particular day? Sometimes I just get in my car and take off in a certain direction and just drive for hours, sometimes days. My last solo trip I had zero idea except that I was first driving to Oregon to see my best friend and from there…whatever I felt like doing, wherever I felt like going in that moment.
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It was my trip to Glacier during the aforementioned road trip that I had a life changing moment. I wrote before about the massive affect Glacier had on me and then the huge bawling session I had on the side of the road in Black Feet Reservation after leaving GNP. Saying I wanted to stay out there is a huge understatement. However I knew I couldn’t move somewhere with a mere $500 in my pocket again like I did California. I want to continue to travel and explore new places but now, as I am straddling 40 years old, I want a game plan. A real game plan. From the moment I decided to move to California to the day I left my parents driveway was just under 2 months. Now, I have 5 years planned out.
I have a desire to stay laser focused. Of course there is room for some deviation. But for the first time in my life what I see in the end is more appealing than what I see in the here and now.
Last year at the end of my trip out west I set a goal for finding a job closer to home by the end of the year. I did that. I have saved $70 a month on commuting gas, 16 hours a month on my driving commute. I can now walk, bike or skateboard to work when the weather is nice.
This year my plan means giving up BIG trips for the next 6-7 months and small trips all together. No buying new gear or household items and cutting waaaay back on frivolous spending. Going out for coffee once a pay instead of several times a week. COOKING AT HOME. Novel concept right? My excuse was, “It is hard to cook for one person.” That’s crap. Today I thought about going out to breakfast, getting an afternoon coffee and ordering Chinese for dinner. In refraining from all that I saved about $25. That may not seem like a lot but it is $25 toward my end goal.
I have started a business. I am working on getting it up and running. I have begun putting a lot of time and energy into creating it and growing it. This will bring me closer to my goal. I have a long way to go as I have financial commitments that must be taken care of first. But I am focused on “building” my future.
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In this time of self awareness I am growing so darn much. Spiritually for sure. Namaste dudes ;D I am more conscious of my body and how I take care of it. I am dedicating more of my time to a regular meditation practice….Oooooooomm! I am not a spiritual guru. I am just me, listening to and for the first time (it’s about time…lol), focusing on myself for the sake of my future…not just the present.
I am totally stoked about my 5 year plan. Yes, there are days that I have to remind myself out loud, “5 year plan Lori, your doing this for your 5 year plan!!!!!!! Ugggghhhhh!!! For the love of god it’s for your darn 5 year plan!!!” But in the end I remember and I get excited about all the things to come.
I’ve already accomplished one dream of mine 10 years ago. Now I have another one. I am dreamer. If you have a dream or desire to do something amazing whether it’s relocating to someplace you been dying to live or something small like developing a self care routine. Start it. If not now when? Make your life happen!
Every so often you meet a couple who are genuine, adventurous, loving and totally outgoing. This I absolutely love!
I pulled up to Borderline Cafe about 6:40am on a chilly, snowy and clear Saturday morning. To my somewhat amazement I saw this elderly (sorry Bob) gentleman shoveling the sidewalk and I thought maybe he owned the building and was clearing a path for the early morning crowd. I stepped out of my car to read the sign on the door to see what time the cafe opened. The gentleman said, “They open at 7…ish. Sometimes a little before, sometimes a little after.” I got back into my car and when 7am rolled around I got back out but didn’t see the gentleman. I walked in and I found a seat on the raised platform by the window and settled in for a delicious breakfast and hot cup of coffee! A pleasant friendly older lady was sitting at the table next to me and low and behold in walked the gentleman and he sat across from her.
The lady and I started chatting (I can start a conversation with anyone, especially if they look interesting.) I love older people! I love hearing where they came from, where they’ve been, what they did for a living and oh, the good stories they have! And if they are a couple, I absolutely love hearing how they met! There is a wisdom and an innocence people develop have as they age into their golden years. Wisdom of knowing how the world works and the innocence of not giving a crap about a lot of things!
She introduced herself as Janet and her husband as Bob or Baaahhhb..lol. They have been going to the same cafe for breakfast every Saturday morning since it opened in 1994! They order the same thing, the breakfast quesadilla as of late, and split it between them. Turns out that Bob does not own the building but he is always out there every Saturday morning either sweeping or shoveling the walkway. He doesn’t do it because he is related to the owner or for a discounted breakfast, he does it because it keeps him young! Janet is outgoing and funny as heck in her subtle delivery of stories. She used to write for the food section of The Plain Dealer. How cool is that?! Do to my poor memory and the paper I lost with notes about the couple on it, I cannot say for sure what Bob did for a living, but Bob is very sweet and funny in a way that I appreciate. He is silly funny!
This cute couple met somewhere between 35 -40 years ago. They have shared many life adventures both big and small. They asked me my story and I told them of the different places I have lived, things I have done, various outdoor adventures and how the outdoors are my first love. They asked if I have ever canoed and I spoke of the trip I took to Algonquin up in Canada in 2015. They did (I believe) a 7 day canoe trip up there! I really like talking to people and hearing about their travels. And it is even better when you can share stories with someone who has been there. 😀
As we sat there swapping stories I could not help but think of how fortunate they are that they found each other and were able to live such a fun life together. That they love each other still after all these years and have breakfast in the same spot every Saturday. I can only hope that one day I will be sitting with my guy at our favorite local breakfast spot, chatting, reading the newspaper, drinking copious amounts of coffee. And when I look up at him and he at me, the beautiful crazy love we still have for each other will be reflected in each others eyes.
Thank you Janet and Bob for being a friendly, inspiring and beautiful couple.
See you soon on a Saturday morning 🙂
~Lori
“Give what you have. To someone, it may be better than you dare to think.”
I am writing to tell you about the oh so very exciting life I lead. PLEASE DO NOT BE JEALOUS OF THE FOLLOWING POST! (it will be hard but you’ll get through it)
I worked out on Saturday morning, it was leg and core day and I was feeling in tip top form. Quite wonderful that I was able to exercise my right to perform other exercises apart from taking turns around the garden with my sister Jane!
I then went to work with a client. (On the weekends I help people organize their homes and offices.) After working with the client I went to do some light bouldering at local crag if you will. Now, let me say that I am not the best climber, nor the worst but it is nice to be outside in the elements by one’s self. However, even though I was climbing by myself there were people who were hiking by and some stopped to watch me. Seriously. No one wants to watch me climb. I am not very good but I work at it… 60% of the year, okay maybe 50%. Lol… I keep ear buds in my ears so I don’t have to listen to people ask questions. I mean if you circle back around I will be stuck on the same crux that I was 30 minutes ago and you’ll think to yourself, “She stinks…let’s keep hiking.” Not very exciting to watch after all eh?! lol… Needless to say I am still working on the same problem.
Sunday morningI awoke in crazy arse pain! I mean it was painful to sit down, stand up, climb stairs, hang pictures, laugh, breath. Weirdly I had no problem eating, my buccinator muscles are in top form! I felt like the Tin Man who needed the oil can. Except I needed massage and a beer! I decided to take a rest day and not workout at all. I organized a client and then my friend and I went to a movie and I almost fell asleep a few times through out it. I felt I owed it to him to stay awake as he paid for the tickets! Bloody hell people…. it is quite difficult being 29 years of age. Okay, that is a lie…I am somewhere between 31 and 100 years of age. I am not narrowing it down for you anymore. You don’t deserve to know the truth.
Now it is Monday evening. I stopped at the market and then came home where I proceeded not to use a single darn ingredient I bought 20 minutes prior. I opened a bottle of delicious red wine and made vegan nachos. Vegan cheese still sucks. This brand melted better but was still absolutely tasteless. One good thing that I learned is that if you mix vegan sour cream with buffalo sauce that combo will mask the bad taste of crappy vegan cheese!!!
Now I am off to bed where I will toss and turn waking up to dry a mouth and two very dry eyes WISHING I would have bought that humidifier I saw on Amazon for $30 a week ago! I will get up at 4:15am, press snooze twice and then finally crawl out of bed and get me arse to the gym. I will literally look like the walking dead. If any of you don’t watch it on the television feel free to meet me at the gym and you can see a live performance! Lol…
Your loving sister and dead poet,
Lori and Henry (Wadsworth Longfellow) He gives to people and thinks it is cool.
If you have never been to the Badlands I HIGHLY suggest you go! I saw more wildlife in my first hour in the Badlands than I did during my several days in Glacier. Prairie Dogs, Long Horn Sheep and Bison. Let me tell ya, the wildlife here is abundant and they let you know that this is their home, NOT yours. The animals were not aggressive by any means, but they sure aren’t going to make any accommodations for us mere human folk. They roam this land the way they were intended to, freely.
I invite you to enjoy 244,000 acres of untouched wilderness.
The Badlands hold a very special place for me. I ventured here eleven years ago on a pilgrimage of sorts. I was searching for a spirituality that I could connect with in an intimate way. I was reading the book, Black Elk Speaks, by John G. Neihardt. This book tells the true story of a medicine man, Black Elk, from the Oglala Lakota (Sioux).
This book moved me and opened up my eyes and heart. It was because of this book that I trekked out to the Badlands in late July/ early August of 2005. I was traveling there so I could be alone in a sacred place. I wanted to be in stillness and quiet, in a land untouched by man’s messy hand.
Well… funny thing about that trip in 2005 and the one this past August 2016…BOTH times I ended up on the road the same week as Sturgis! Hahaha! For those of you that do not know what Sturgis is, it is a motorcycle rally held in Sturgis, SD. It is one of the largest motorcycle rallies in the world. In 2005 the official attendance was over 525,000! So I was NOT alone on the road. Hahahaha! The motorcyclists were the nicest people I met on that 2005 trip. They were kind, giving and helpful to a solo female traveler. They even helped me with flat tire and made sure I made it to the auto shop safely!
I almost didn’t make it to the Badlands this go around. I was traveling though Oregon, Idaho, Washington, Montana and Wyoming and I was tiiiiired! But I stopped at Wall Drug one last time for a doughnut and a 5¢ cup of coffee. I was sitting there sipping on my brew talking to myself in my head, “Duuuuude Lori the entrance is right there, you have a national park pass and seriously you LOVE the Badlands.” So I hopped in my car and drove south down Route 240 to the Pinnacles Entrance. I was in and in love, again!!!
I pulled into the Badlands and was excited to spend a night in a National Park where I didn’t have to worry about grizzly bears, black bears or mountain lions. I even joked that the only creature I’d have to worry about was a rogue prairie dog! Suuuure the park is packed with bison but bison aren’t too interested in humans, they’re vegans after all 🙂 We are kindred spirits 😀 Compassionate eaters…lol! I am one with my bison my peeps.
I found two horse posts (sans horses) where I rigged up my hammock.
Under stars and swaying in the wind
Windy day!
Praying I would end up a like this…
or like this….
After rigging my hammock so it would be about a half foot off the ground, I decided to roam around and take some pictures and chat up a few other solo travelers. I met Cody from Niagra Falls, Canada and Rob from Alberta, Canada, both traveling solo. Cody was suppose to be working Burning Man as a paramedic but the officials couldn’t get his credentials verified in time so he decided to take a great American road trip anyways! Rob is a Canadian that is currently residing in Southern California and just traveling every chance he gets. I LOVE LOVE LOVE meeting inspiring, fearless and kind people on my travels. The energy from these meetings are infectious! The three of us sat around swapping travel stories and drank a few beers. I only had two beers because I was super tired and if I had anymore than that I wouldn’t have been able to stay up to watch the meteor shower 😀 After a couple of hours I decided to hit the hay.
As I crawled into my hammock and snuggled into my sleeping bag, I couldn’t help but feel so darn HAPPY and CONTENT! I had a met two very cool dudes (too young for me :/), watched an amazing sunset, seen falling stars all across the sky and now I was being swayed to sleep in my hammock by a nice breeze. The moon and stars were my ceiling and the coyotes were singing me a lullaby. It. Was. Perfect.
A few hours later I awoke to the loudest snorting and chewing I have ever heard in my life! I suddenly awoke and thought to myself, “They (bison) must be close!” I ever so carefully pulled down the left side of my hammock and stared into a GIANT WALL OF BROWN. I could see the giant wall of brown because the moon was very bright that night. As my eyes followed the wall down they met an eye and a big mouth chewing on the tough grasses that blanket the landscape. This bison was SIX inches from my head! The only thing separating us was a skinny horse post. I was so excited and in awe but was also crapping myself at the same time! I laid still as a statue and tried not to make any noises or sudden movements as bison are spooked by those things and that is when they attack. My heart was POUNDING out of my chest so much that I feared it may break through and I’d die! All I could think of was, okay…this is it. If I die at least it will be somewhere I love and doing something I love. I am totally okay with that. Three bison passed within 6 inches of my head in a single file line all stopping to graze right by my head. What felt like 30 minutes was probably only 10 minutes but still dudes it was sooooo cool and nerve wracking at the same time. I waited for a while after I heard the last one go by. Cody then yelled out to me that they were gone but I didn’t believe him. I laid there for another minute or two until he yelled out, “Lori, I swear they are all really gone. They have moved on.” Phhhhewwww!
Uh….Pleasure to meet you. 😀
My snuggle buddies for the night…!
He said they were so close to my head that even he was scared from a distance. He walked up to me and we were both like, “Did that just really happen?!” He was up late doing some time lapse photography and was I glad he was. We chatted for a few minutes and then I went to sleep in my car for the next few hours. Hahaha! CRAZINESS!!!
The Bad Lands are bad @ss, so bad @ss that the storm clouds are the craziest I have ever seen!
Soft billowy clouds on the horizon of The Bad Lands
Epic trip dudes!
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Get in your car and GO!
~Lori
“Give what you have. To someone, it may be better than you dare to think.”
I nestled into my warm sleeping bag on a very crisp (puffy jacket kind of crisp morning!) making sure I was tucked below the rocks far enough so no one from the road could see me. The rock ledge was just wide enough for me to lay. In this spot I spent a few mornings drawing, writing, napping and sitting in wonderment about this little spot I found. My mind instantly stopped racing about all the things I wanted to do and see while in Glacier. In an instant, nature stopped me in my tracks and erased all other things from my mind. The flow of the swiftly moving water came around the bend pillowing over a few large embedded rocks and then dramatically slowed down as if to lazily pool in the curve of the river. That is where I was tucked. Into the curve of the river where the water took it’s time dancing around the eddies hanging out before moving on down stream. I so wanted to jump in! Just to be one with the river for a brief moment. I could picture myself being alive 150 years ago, laying in this same spot. No cars going by up above on the road, just me in the water swimming and being free…
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The water here is so clear and crisp. If I had the guts I would have taken a dip but it was very cold in the mornings and I was happy and comfy in my sleeping bag.
I listened, I mean really listened, to the beautiful sounds of nature all around me. The flowing water, chipmunks scurrying, all sorts of birds who were busy calling out into the morning and the wind blowing through the river valley. Imagine the most picturesque nature montage from a movie then times that by a million.
There are some things I want to hold sacred so I am going to end this post here. I do not want to provide details to exactly where along the road this place is. Maybe one day you will go there with me. 😉
Have a beautiful weekend 😀
~Lori
“Give what you have. To someone, it may be better than you dare to think.”
Morning on Lake McDonald 🙂Goooood Moooorrrrrnning everyone!!!!!! That is how I felt waking up to this view a few weeks ago. Excited and hungry for exploration!
Glacier is stuck in time in the most beautiful of ways. Established as a park in 1910 Glacier has quite the impressive stats. Here are a few facts about Glacier NP courtesy of the NPS website.
History
Established as a park on May 11, 1910
Established as Waterton-Glacier International Peace Park in 1932
Established as an International Biosphere Reserve in 1974
Water
Number of named lakes: 131
Total number of lakes: 762
Largest lake: Lake McDonald at 9.4 miles long; 1.5 miles wide; 464 feet deep; 6,823 acres
Number of streams: 563
Land
Elevation at Logan Pass: 6,646 feet / 2,025 m)
Number of mountains: 175
Highest mountain: Mt. Cleveland at 10,448 ft / 3,190 m)
Number of glaciers: 25 named; all shrinking in size
Largest glacier: Blackfoot Glacier 0.7 sq. miles
Plants and Animals
Number of fish species : 24
Number of species of mammals: 71
Number of species of birds: 276 documented
Number of species of plants: 1,132 vascular and 858 non-vascular
Most impressive my friends…Most impressive! Lake McDonald is TWICE as deep as the great Lake Erie! Crazy when you think about that, eh?! I cannot say enough great things about all the friendly, patient and knowledgeable people who work in this amazing national park!
I arrived in northwestern Montana in the very late hours of the night. I didn’t want to spend $200 on a hotel room so that night I slept in my car in the cute quiet neighborhood of Whitefish.
(Side note: I have GOT to find a way to convert my little car into a comfortable place to sleep!)
After I woke up and nabbed a much needed cup of coffee, I headed straight to the west entrance of Glacier. I was a bit early and if you are the dishonest sort then you can drive right past the self-registration area and into the park. I however can be honest to a fault so I patiently waited for the park rangers to open the drive-up windows and spent the well worth it $80 for my year-long national park pass. I get so excited about theses things! I feel like I have some magical SUPER power that no one else has (except for the thousands of others with same pass… lol) like this is a ticket to my all dreams and adventures! A national park pass is my ticket, the national parks are what I dream about!
Dudes I slept in my car…no judgement…lol!My folks have been here numerous times and told me of a few great places that I absolutely had to check out. My friends Dingo and El Cap also gave me a few must see places so I did have some idea of where I wanted to go. This park is so huge and the suggestions were only a fraction of what the park has to offer one’s senses! I wandered on in and came upon Lake McDonald first and couldn’t believe the size of that sucker! HUGE! Surrounded by glacial mountains, big pines and whispy cloads floating above. I pulled over to snap a few pics and really man I could have stayed there all day! Seriously people, it would take years to really discover this park on your own. Not just because there is SOOOOO much to see but also because each place that you stop to see along the way just captivates you and you want to spend a lot of time there. Spend time to take pics, watch the wildlife, listen to the music of the streams, feel the wind and soak it all in nice and slowly. Kind of like savoring a great cannoli combined with a delicious cup of coffee…Mmmm! Well it is breakfast time here and I’m hungry 😉
I drove around for a little bit and after about an hour was I dying to brush my teeth, shower and rest in a comfy bed. Sometimes when traveling I just need to lay my head in a bed. I would never give up camping, hammock or tent, but sometimes you should find respite in a space bigger than a little tent! I stumbled upon Lake McDonald Lodge. It is this giant beautiful inn that takes you back in time with all the carved wood work, nooks and crannies that give this place a sense of mystery. I inquired about vacancy but the cheapest room on short notice was $250. I was so tired and in of a deep cleaning that I almost said, “Heck why not?” However, my practical side took over and convinced me to find some place cheaper. The lady at the desk gave me a list of all the inns in the park and I called every single one of them. I finally found a spot at the Village Inn at Apgar. Now keep in mind I was super tired, in need of a shower and a solid nights sleep and therefore was a bit cranky when I found out a few things the lady didn’t mention on the phone about the hotel. I checked in and they gave me my card to a first floor room. It was cute and quaint but it didn’t have a/c (there was a box fan in the closet) nor a telephone in case of an emergency. The manager actually told me that if I needed help immediately then I should bang on my wall to alert my neighbors. I was like, really dude?! You only get cell service if you have Verizon. I did complain a little because none of this was mentioned when I booked the room via telephone. (When traveling alone it is always safety first.) So after a bit of battle they gave me a room on the second floor that was less noisy and a bit more secure. I didn’t want anyone crawling through my first floor window. (The windows have flimsy locks.)
After I showered and scrubbed my teeth I was ready for an ice-cold beer and snacks. I was way too tired to put any effort into eating a proper dinner so I moseyed on down to the little market and picked up a six-pack of local IPA brew, some sugar snap peas and cheese. (I fell of the vegan wagon after an amazing french dessert in Oregon…but I am back on it and my body is happy again!)
brews and views 🙂
OH. MY. STARS.! That was exactly what I needed! I settled into my chair out on the balcony and just zoned out for quite a bit…lol. How could you not?! I was also inspired to share a video for the first time. Yikes! But here ya go!
(side note: this guy running the coffee shop this morning as the best playlists. I don’t even need ear plugs!)
After vlogging (is that even a word for video blogging?..lol), I crawled into a nice big comfy bed with comfy pillows and totally drifted into a deep deep slumber. HEAVEN dudes, heaven! I woke up so wide-eyed and refreshed that I did not want to leave my hotel room for the next several days but at $180 a night , I did just that but not before brewing TWO cups of coffee simultaneously!!! For an obsessed coffee lover like me I was so stoked that I had a cup of coffee in each hand. I drank those two and then brewed two more! BLISS! While drinking my coffees…hahaha, I took a time lapse video.
The clouds were sparse but still it was fun to tinker around with time lapse. I really could have stayed there for days on end. Oh, to have unlimited funds and live the life of luxury but I don’t want nice hotels and comfy beds all the time. I want to feel the elements and sleep under the stars, I much prefer that. After that I packed up my room and crossed the parking lot to a giant wooded area designated for camping. To pop my tent was only $20 a night. There weren’t any showers but there were nice bathrooms and potable water. Hahaha! I spent that night testing out bear spray. Note to anyone who has never sprayed bear spray before. DO NOT spray it toward a tree! Even if you are good ten feet away because that stuff comes out like a canon, bounces off the tree and right into your eyes and throat! My eyes burned a little for the next half hour and I swear my throat was going to peel off in layers. The lessons we learn while out on adventure! 😀
Up next, the alluring beautiful spot I found along the McDonald River.
~Lori
“Give what you have. To someone, it may be better than you dare to think.”
It has taken me way too long to write about Montana but honestly I was totally bummed about being back. I had this really crappy moment when I was leaving Glacier. I woke up on a crisp sunlit morning, neatly packed up my tent, loaded the rest of the stuff in my car and started driving to my new found favorite spot along McDonald Creek just north of McDonald Lake. I was just about there when I felt a strong urge to leave and move on to my next destination. So I turned the car around and said to myself, “I don’t want to rush my time here. I don’t want to try and see everything in one fell swoop.” I knew I’d be coming back Glacier sooner rather than later so I felt that it was a good time to leave. I drove along Route 2 down the south end of the park and into the east end. The southeast end of the park is beautiful with rolling landscapes of tall grasses and subtle views (compared to the stark ones of Going To The Sun Road) and way less traveled than other parts of the park. This long winding quiet road allowed me ample time to get lost in my thoughts and desires about this magical, humbling, nurturing place I just spent the past several days in. Glacier is a place that resets every part of your being. It is pure and lovely, towering and intimidating, patient and raw. Glacier will make you fall in love, threaten you with crazy storms and then it will wrap it’s arms around you with it’s wild, raw and free loving energy. I fell in love with Glacier…hard…I fell in love fast. I hated to be leaving but knew it was time to go. That wasn’t the end, it was only the beginning.
Driving down route 2 to East Glacier I just started crying, sobbing buckets of tears. Screaming in my head, “I KNOW I AM NOT READY TO STAY BUT I AM NOT READY TO GO HOME EITHER!!!!!!!!!!” I was just done. DONE in every sense of the word. I just wanted to wander off into the woods, follow the rivers, find a great place to take a nap and wake up with all the answers. I wanted to drive back up to Bowman Lake, dive into it’s crystal clear cold waters and just SCREEEEAAAMMMM. Scream so loud that the fish scattered and the mountains trembled. I pulled off the road somewhere in Black Feet Nation and just sat there staring out into nothing, wishing like heck I could fast forward to the place in time where I am ready to be ready. Five to seven years ago I would have just given my notice to my boss, had someone pack up my apartment and just stay. Now I am in a different place. This place of making a life that I can take on the road. I don’t want a house, land or permanent address. I want the country to be my home and the landscape of this wondrous land to be my life’s work….
Now back to the beginning…
Sometimes you experience moments and are happy you are by yourself. Then there are some moments that are so EXTRAORDINARY that you wish you had someone by your side to share it with because you want someone to feel what you just felt. Whether that someone be a lover, friend, niece or nephew, anyone to just to soak in that moment with you. The emotion, the beauty, the chills flowing all over your body! I had two of those moments on my travels this past month! TWO! I also experienced many many other great moments…how lucky am I?!?!?! 😀
Montana: (facts courtesy of http://www.50states.com/facts/montana.htm, except #10….that’s mine own fact!)
Montana is the only state with a triple divide allowing water to flow into the Pacific, Atlantic, and Hudson Bay. This phenomenon occurs at Triple Divide Peak in Glacier National Park.
Home to more elk, deer and antelope than people.
Has the largest grizzly bear population in the lower 48.
It’s river and streams provide water for THREE oceans!!!
Has the largest variety of mammals than any other state.
It has the largest migratory elk herd in the United States.
Montana means mountains in Spanish.
At Bowdoin National Wildlife Refuge it is possible to see up to 1,700 nesting pelicans.
46 out of Montana’s 56 counties are considered “frontier counties” with an average population of 6 or fewer people per square mile.
So far THE MOST BEAUTIFUL STATE I have ever been to.
After I had five wonderful days with my best friend Shannon I was anxious to get on the road and travel to my homeland. I was born in Great Falls, Montana. I was a wee baby when we moved away but that is where I drew my first breaths and they have stayed with me all this time.
I never thought that I would be able to live in a state that is land locked. I learned that the hard way living in Florida for a short time and although Gainesville is nice, it was torture living inland! Never again. And that is why when I lived in Venice and San Francisco, CA I had to be with in walking distance to the ocean or no more than a 10 minute drive. Same goes for here in Ohio. The country is beautiful for a little Sunday drive with its little farms and back roads but nothing is more beautiful than the wide open waters of the Pacific Ocean and Lake Erie!
Somewhere outside Butte, MT
Well…until I hit Montana. Montana with it’s wide rivers, towering mountains, cloud shadows on the rolling hills and glacial lakes! I cried when I experienced this beauty. I was driving out of Butte, Montana when I hit a thunderstorm. The rain was pouring down and dark clouds hovered above but all the while the sun was still shining. A rainbow that was so bright, arced high above the mountains. Between the rainbow and the sun the rain looked like crystals flickering to the ground. That my friends, I have never seen anywhere else. I cried. I was soooooo contently happy and overcome with peace that I had to pull over just watch it for a while. This happened many times while driving through Montana. It really is one of the last frontier states and it’s vast openness is unsurpassed by any other state in the lower forty eight.
Montana rivers are huge. I am talking wide, with clear rushing waters that just BEG you to go swimming in them. One of my goals this trip was to swim in as many bodies of water as possible! So I did! I was driving into Montana moseying along down the road when I spotted a nice cool river to take a dip in. Now Montana has great rivers for fishing and they have fishing access points all along the rivers. Lots of fly fishing happening up there. So when I came upon my first access point I pulled off and there was one camper and one car. The only person I saw was a cute fly fisherman from Vermont (didn’t get his name…shucks!) So I scurried down to a spot where the water pools and waded over to two giant rocks. I saw the cute “fly” guy (hahaha) but had to wait until he made his way down stream so I could get in. Yes, I swam in my t-shirt, bra and underwear that time and it was AWESOME!!! Clear sparkling waters, tall pines and gorgeous river rock. Gosh I felt SOOOO free!
So nice to cool off after driving for several hours!
Look at that technique! Lol… I came up with a way to take pictures while traveling solo. Setting a timer was not conducive to getting a decent candid shot. I cannot pose for anything and when I try I look ridiculous! :p So I set up my flexible tripod ($5 on amazon), hooked my phone up, set the camera to video that way I could record and swim around for as long as I wanted. This way I wouldn’t have to rush out trying to get in the frame and not look like a dork! When finished, I just played the video, paused it on a shot I thought was cool and screen shot it. Wahla!!! Last time I traveled out west it was with a disposable camera…lol! But hey dudes I took some great pics without knowing if they were going to be good or not! Technology man…it’s a love hate relationship 🙂
But with Montana….it is just pure love!
To be continued…
~Lori
“Give what you have. To someone, it may be better than you dare to think.”
Dudes I am writing from Glacier National Park in beautiful northern Montana!!!! I will dedicate like a 1,000 posts to this leg of my trip a little later ;D First up…wonderful Oregon!
I was so totally stoked to visit one of my super best friends Shannon residing in The Dalles, OR! Shannon and I have been friends for nearly 20 years and even though we go through spouts of not seeing each other we always pick up right where we left off!
Oh Oregon…I like you but need a better sign! Dinner at Southland Whiskey Kitchen, Portland
Shannon moved to Oregon to take a great job and be with her boyfriend Matthew about 3 years ago and it has taken me this long to visit! (I will not say that she never ONCE came to visit me in California!) Oh wait… I just did…. >(
Anyways… What didn’t we do while I was in visiting?! First off let me tell you that Shannon and Matt have a sick view from their backyard!
Yeah….that’s from Shannon’s backyard!
I got to hangout, chat, workout and chill with my friend Shannon 😀 Also her friend Dave was in town for a wedding so it was a Cleveland reunion! #216love
Here is what I didn’t know about Oregon… the eastern part of the state is dry, dry and dry! As an Ohio gal, I thought ALL of Oregon was covered in giant towering pines and lush forest ground! Yeah, no. As I drove across the country I was able to see how the landscaped changed over the course of beautiful endless miles. It’s not that I expected each state to be a certain way, I just didn’t realize that drastic of a contrast to what I had in my mind about eastern Washington and Oregon.
With that said The Dalles is beautiful! Hood River is beautiful! All in all it is a great chunk of land that offers endless outdoor activities to take part in. For instance: horseback riding (we didn’t this time but Shannon has horses so it’s on the list for next time), paddleboarding, sailing, hiking Mt. Hood, jogging along the river path and SO MUCH MORE!!!
I went sailing for the first time and whoa dude….crazy cool and crazy scary at times! Especially when your BFF almost literally slips right into the water and you think, “yep this ship (boat) is totally going to capsize!!!!
That’s the boat. Some fun facts that maybe one should know before the going sailing for the first time…MATTHEW!!!!….lol!
Boat’s really do not sink without human error.
You can cut the power of the sail (by dropping it) if crap hits the fan.
There is a 6 foot 1500lb KEEL that is preventing that effing boat from tipping so far over that is goes UNDER water!!!!
Sit facing HIGH side so you’re not turned around looking LOW side and thinking, “Oh POOOOOOOOOP we’re going to Titanic the S%#T out of this boat!
You can trust some dude named Matthew….because even though he’s only been sailing for a year…he know’s his stuff.
5-6 knots feels like 100mph!
After I survived sailing…lol, the next day we kept things low key and went for a jog along the Columbia River. Just beautiful! Then the next next day we drove to Portland tocheck out that very cool city, hiked Mt. Hood and paddled boarded ALLLLLLLL the way to Washington! (the Columbia River averages a mile in width so it wasn’t that far.)
Did we do some drinking…yes but it was all because we prefaced it with a great workout!
I had a fabulous time in Oregon but sadly it was time for me to wander on 😀 I said my goodbyes (why does’t that look like goodbye is spelled right? LOL) and moseyed my way to Montana!
Thank you Shannon for being such and amazing, wonderful, adventurous and crazy friend! I miss ya already!
~Lori
“Give what you have. To someone, it may be better than you dare to think.”
Do you see that cloud?! That cloud is a map of the United States, Canada and part of Mexico. How awesome is that?! I saw this cloud as I was driving through Montana, the state where I born. 😀 Yes, I was just a baby when we moved but none the less I can claim to be a native!
FINALLY the time has come for me to be on VACATION!!! You know how you count down the days until your vacation starts but once it arrives it seems like some sort of dream? That’s what it totally felt like for me. It didn’t actually hit me that I was on vacation until I was driving out of Ohio. This trip is taking me through the northern part of the U.S.A. There are 2 main destinations on this trip. 1. To see one of my very best friends Shannon and 2. To finally make it up to Glacier National Park! Shannon lives in Oregon and even when I lived in California I never made it up to Oregon. Although… I did almost move there post whitewater rafting accident but decided on staying in California. Good decision?… who knows?!
Open road and a semi buggy windshield…lolPeople kept asking me, “Why don’t you just fly?” Great question people but the answer leaves a lot of people shaking and scratching their heads in disbelief. I actually LOVE LOVE LOVE driving across country! People then asked, “Someone is driving with you, right?” Nope! I have driven across country solo a few times before so it isn’t anything new nor is it scary to me. People say flying is so much quicker, flying is so much cheaper and my personal favorite, driving is so boring. Okay, okay… the first two are true. Flying is way quicker and much cheaper but the third is SO not true for me. Then people ask me if I get lonely out on the road. It is very seldom that I get lonely while road tripping. Would I love to have an amazing, adventurous, spontaneous and fun loving boyfriend to travel with? Um…yeah! It would be so great to share experience, the cost of everything, the driving, the set up of tents, picture taking and such but I’m sure as heck not going to wait around for Mr. Right to show up just so I can travel the way I love to travel!
Driving across this amazing land is a privilege and I am so lucky to be able live here as a free citizen and experience all the different landscapes these states have to offer! What other country in the world can you experience all the different types of climate? Between Friday and today I drove though a temperate humid climate, desert climate and temperate rain forest climate and that took less than 5 days!
So let me start this journey with you…
I woke up Friday the 30th of July and headed out of Ohio. I packed only what could fit in the hatchback of my car. I like to keep things neat and tidy when I travel! Clutter in the car equals clutter in the mind…. and me no like clutter…LOL! Heading out of Ohio was uneventful as was Indiana and Illinois (both beautiful in their own right.) Although it took me a while to get through both states due to construction. I looked at google maps ahead of time and wow…what a difference 10 years makes! 10 years ago there really wasn’t a google maps. I headed to the west coast (to live) with an actual paper map! I still love paper maps and almost prefer them because I think paper maps take a skill that is long lost on the newer generations. Skills such as cardinal directions, legends and topography interpretation. Now google maps tells ya the quickest route, traffic and construction!
About 12 years ago I drove the northern route out to the Badlands of South Dakota and then up through Wyoming and the lower part of Montana. I took the almost the same route this time because it was the quickest and I really wanted to get out to Oregon. I am going to mosey my way back through Washington and Montana once I leave Oregon. Wisconsin and Minnesota are so beautiful! Rolling farms, views that go on forever and just the simplicity of the land. Driving though those two states is very calming.
Minnesota and Wisconsin
I was SOOOOO excited to see Caribou Coffee that I literally screamed aloud when I saw the sign on the highway! My girlfriends and I always used to go to Caribou when they were open in Ohio. Caribou had such a friendly and cabin cozy atmosphere and it has yet to be rivaled by any coffee shop in the Cleveland area. Erie Island is awesome and my new favorite but definitely not as cozy or friendly as Caribou Coffee… 😦 The giant load on the truck looks like a huge wheel of cheese and since I was stuck in a little bit of traffic in the cheese state capitol of the U.S. I thought I’d snap a funny picture! lol… I also love that there is a city somewhere in Minnesota called Blue Earth! It sounds like it would be a cool place to visit!
I spent the night at a KOA in Minnesota and it was nice to wake up a take a warm shower. Props to the KOA I stayed at because the shower heads were amazing!!! I will say that this KOA was next to a highway and it was awfully loud. I ended up going into my car in the middle of the night just to dampen the noise. Ever since I started hammock camping I really dislike sleeping on the hard ground. The car didn’t offer a better nights sleep either. Oh well…that’s life on the road!
South Dakota
South Dakota will always be one of the most sacred and beautiful places to me. 12 years ago I traveled to The Badlands in South Dakota on a sort of spiritual pilgrimage. I was searching for a spiritual practice and started reading a book called Black Elk Speaks. This book opened my eyes and my heart and was the reason that I traveled to The Badlands. The rest of that story I will keep to myself for now….I am sure I will share later!
Dudes…when you get to western Minnesota you will see your first sign for Wall Drug. Then for the next 400 or so miles there will be a crap ton of billboards of all shapes and sizes advertising a free doughnut and a 5⊄ cup of coffee! 5⊄ cup of coffee?????? Heck YES PLEASE!!!! Well the coffee if 5 cents if you sit down in the restaurant. I bought mine to go as I have already wandered around Wall Drug before and it is very touristy and very crowded. Definitely a must see if you have never been out that way! You almost feel like a jerk if you don’t stop by because they goad you with cute and welcoming signs for 400 hundred miles! I don’t want to dampen their efforts…so I always stop by when I am in the neighborhood 😀
After I left South Dakota I cut through the upper northeast corner of Wyoming. Wyoming so much to see and I definitely recommend getting out there to visit but on this trip I took the quickest way to Oregon.
I am going to skip over my drive through Montana as I will be spending a majority of my time there and will write about it at length later. I am heading out of Oregon tomorrow morning and making my way there! I cannot wait!!!!
Next up Oregon! To be continued….
~Lori
“Give what you have. To someone, it may be better than you dare to think.”
I felt like the Tin Man who needed the oil can. Except I needed massage and a beer! I decided to take a rest day and not workout at all. I organized a client and then my friend and I went to a movie and I almost fell asleep a few times through out it. I felt I owed it to him to stay awake as he paid for the tickets! Bloody hell people…. it is quite difficult being 29 years of age. Okay, that is a lie…I am somewhere between 31 and 100 years of age. I am not narrowing it down for you anymore. You don’t deserve to know the truth.
Wildflowers Lori 